Rise of the Ubersexual Man!!!

I was getting late for one of my gals only outing, I put on a cute black tee on top of my cool blue denim jeans & was flimsily searching for my black stilettos when I heard “Why are you struggling just wear the red peep toes you have outside”; and it sure did look good and as I was strapping them it hit me that the advice came from my husband who was now gravely looking at the share market on CNBC & flipping channels to catch the cricket match as well, and I said to myself with a gratified grin “you got one Ubersexual man on your hands”!!

Gone are the days of the metro-sexual man who was self-obsessed & a way too self indulging giving way to the Ubersexual man, who is a manly man who displays all the good qualities associated with the gender without giving into the negative stereotypes such as chauvinism, emotional unavailability and a brain only filled with sports stats, beer and burgers. He has the traditional mannerisms a man should have; strength, honor & character while also possessing positive traits that are usually related to women such as compassion, communicativeness, co-operation and nurturance.

According to AskMen.com they give few differences between the metro-sexual man and the uber-cool Ubersexual man-

Passion
Ubersexuals are passionate about business, politics and global affairs.
Metrosexuals are passionate about themselves. Go ahead, just ask them!

The Sexes
Ubersexual respect and like women, but prefer the company of men.
Metrosexuals consider women to be among their best (and only) friends.

Source of inspiration
Ubersexuals follow their experience and reason.
Metrosexuals follow Carson Kressley.

Priorities
Ubersexuals are concerned with the world around them.
Metrosexuals are concerned with their calorie intake.

Emotional level
Ubersexuals are emotionally available.
Metrosexuals are emotionally vacant.

Money
Ubersexuals invest their money in sound business strategies.
Metrosexuals invest their money in exfoliant.

Grooming
Ubersexuals shave daily, if need be.
Metrosexuals can tell you the exact time of their next hair cut.

Obsessions
Ubersexuals are obsessed with quality and integrity.
Metrosexuals are obsessed with their butts.

It is important for men to change in their primal habits if they want to avoid being ostracized by women in this day and age. Women are much more in touch with their desires and expectations of their men not only in terms of basal needs but also how their man looks, speaks and interacts with her peer group.

I feel every woman must push herself to be healthy and groom themselves & also push their husbands or boyfriends to do so, which I can safely say would only improve their relationship. Few examples of our very own Ubersexual Bollywood men would be hotties Hrithik Roshan, Askhay Kumar, Abhishek Bachchan & of course uber-hot John Abraham.

Well I can for certain say women aren’t quetching about this new revolution.

Nandini Aravind